I feel you Wiz. Sex is great because of the endorphins that trigger a chemical release that puts us in a euphoric state. I think for men, we are so attracted to so many different types of women physically, that we get bored with being with one women and want to test drive someone else. Because when we're with the same person for so long even if the sex is still good we don't get the same high that we would get if we explored a new anatomy. Peace and Blessings (I'm loving the blog man, keep it up!)
The reason why men feel the need to have sexual relations outside of their significant other is biblical. Men are suppose to be fruitful and multiply....women too. Men just take that biblical duty too far. Sex is meant as a tool to reproduce. So if "Cone" or men like him are getting bored with the same person...then stop trying to reproduce for a while and "you porn" it by yourself for a while and explore your own anatomy. After a few times of that, maybe you will appreciate that significant other.
Meosha, I'm not bored of my wife. We have been married for 8 years and have 3 boys. I have never cheated on my wife. I don't have a need or want to cheat on my wife because when you get married you commit to building a GODLY foundation not only between you and your wife but, between your children and the out side world as well. I feel like we are put here to reflect GOD's light and through a strong and faithful relationship with your spouse that light can shine brighter. But, I do understand looking at the opposite sex with fleshly desires because like you said sex is for procreation first. But, a LOVE and Respect for GOD leads to a LOVE and Respect for self and others. Self control is the key. I was just breaking down the science in my last post. But, I'm not that dude that is going out there trying to get me a side piece. And you can ask anyone that knows me, man or woman and they will say the same thing. Sorry for the confusion in the last post if I sounded like I support cheating because I don't. I've been cheated on before and I wouldn't do that to someone even if I didn't have feeling for them. I would jus let them go. Even in the New Testatment, Paul states that adultry is one of the few legitimate reasons to get a divorce. So, NO I DO NOT SUPPORT CHEATING UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. And once again Meosha, I am sorry for the confusion from my last post. Peace and Blessings
I agree that the flesh is weak and temptation strong but the most eloquent statement is "Self control is the key" The ability to control oneself is a rarity among people (mostly men from my experience) Thank you "Cone" for appearing to be the exception to the rule. I accept your apology, peace, and blessings.
I feel you Wiz. Sex is great because of the endorphins that trigger a chemical release that puts us in a euphoric state. I think for men, we are so attracted to so many different types of women physically, that we get bored with being with one women and want to test drive someone else. Because when we're with the same person for so long even if the sex is still good we don't get the same high that we would get if we explored a new anatomy. Peace and Blessings (I'm loving the blog man, keep it up!)
ReplyDeleteThe reason why men feel the need to have sexual relations outside of their significant other is biblical. Men are suppose to be fruitful and multiply....women too. Men just take that biblical duty too far. Sex is meant as a tool to reproduce. So if "Cone" or men like him are getting bored with the same person...then stop trying to reproduce for a while and "you porn" it by yourself for a while and explore your own anatomy. After a few times of that, maybe you will appreciate that significant other.
ReplyDeleteMeosha, I'm not bored of my wife. We have been married for 8 years and have 3 boys. I have never cheated on my wife. I don't have a need or want to cheat on my wife because when you get married you commit to building a GODLY foundation not only between you and your wife but, between your children and the out side world as well. I feel like we are put here to reflect GOD's light and through a strong and faithful relationship with your spouse that light can shine brighter. But, I do understand looking at the opposite sex with fleshly desires because like you said sex is for procreation first. But, a LOVE and Respect for GOD leads to a LOVE and Respect for self and others. Self control is the key. I was just breaking down the science in my last post. But, I'm not that dude that is going out there trying to get me a side piece. And you can ask anyone that knows me, man or woman and they will say the same thing. Sorry for the confusion in the last post if I sounded like I support cheating because I don't. I've been cheated on before and I wouldn't do that to someone even if I didn't have feeling for them. I would jus let them go. Even in the New Testatment, Paul states that adultry is one of the few legitimate reasons to get a divorce. So, NO I DO NOT SUPPORT CHEATING UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE. And once again Meosha, I am sorry for the confusion from my last post. Peace and Blessings
ReplyDeleteWell spoken "Cone"...
ReplyDeleteI agree that the flesh is weak and temptation strong but the most eloquent statement is "Self control is the key" The ability to control oneself is a rarity among people (mostly men from my experience) Thank you "Cone" for appearing to be the exception to the rule. I accept your apology, peace, and blessings.